Posts Tagged ‘ service ’

Masters new toy!

Master is home for the weekend. He has to leave Tuesday morning. This time with Him has become so precious to me. You have no idea how important the little things are, ie His smell, touch and even His voice. Without Him here the apartment is so empty and devoid of life.

I have no purpose when He is gone. Its hard to even do the simple things like cooking is. It isnt the same cooking for just myself. I always wish He was here, with me instead of out there. But I know this separation is nessecary for our future.

Things are rough on the lifestyle front. We haven’t figured out how exactly to be us, in our places even when we are apart. Its a learning process, as sephi put it today. We have to find what works and tweek what doesn’t until it to works. It will be hard, but learning to be Master and slave on the truck was also hard. And we learned to do that.

Master got a new toy! Its a android tablet with a 3G hook up. We were there to talk phone returns and came home with this bad boy. I so want one after playing with it today. I’ve done things on Fetlife, facebook and here that I didn’t think I would be able to do.

I also made the bed, did laundry, washed dishes and made pork chops, wild rice, corn and deviled eggs. (All Master’s favorites) So a normal day as a stay-at-home slave. Oh and washed dishes after cooking and eating. Soon I will give Master a rub down and probably go to bed. I was up at 6:30am, so I’m pretty tired.

If I can I will post Junes posts tomorrow. I am only allowed to be online when Master is here. Which is only one weekend a month now. 😦

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Your service or my service?

“How do you define “service”?”

That’s a loaded question if I’ve ever heard one.

First of all, there are different kinds of service. Then you add the fact that no two people serve the same way. The gal should really be more spacific. So I will answer in sections.

To me, there is Domestic Service a slave provides and then there is the Sexual Service. Both are equally important in the own way. The duties a slave has normally fall under those categories. That is why some slaves call themselves either a Domestic slave or a Sex slave. I have never understood the reasoning behind the clarification. I am both wrapped in one noun and verb: slave.

I serve willingly in both categories. I love to keep our house home clean. I take great pride and pleasure in cooking for Him. The simplest reminder of my place by getting His drink thrills me. At the same time, I love when He binds me to His will by a simple command, “stay” while He tortures me. When He opens me to new sensations and sexual experiences thrills me! I even like when He just takes what’s His… Sometimes. I enjoy balancing along the razor edge between pain and pleasure, just like I enjoy balancing on the edge of the stool to clean something!

I am what I am and I know what I like or dislike.

How do I define service?

Service: A group of actions or activities that I do to show my Owner my respect for Him. It is the way I show Him I am proud to be His slut. Service, either sexual or domestic, is my opportunity to create the life I choose to live with Him. It allows me the chance to say, “No matter what happens, I will always be here to love You, help You through life by shouldering the domestic responsibilities while You chill. I am always here to relieve Your pressure and fulfill Your pleasure!” Not in words or pretty poems, but by actions.

That my friends is how I define service and with it means to lil ole me. 🙂

The little helper

“Do you know what a Butler’s book is? Do you use one as a part of your service? If not, do you have a book to keep track of frequent guests’ preferences so that you can cater to their needs and desires each time they visit?”

When I was living in Washington I had a Butler’s book that was an absolute life saver for family get together or BBQ’s. Every person who likes to entertain and throw get together needs one!

At first I wrote things down on individual index cards for what one person liked to eat, drink and what foods or ingredients they were allergic to. But it got so scattered and unorganized I sat down one day and copied it into a spare notebook I had lying around. I gotta tell you, having everything in one easy to look at area is definitely a life saver.

Since I moved in with my Master I haven’t really been able to cook let alone creat a get together with friends or family. But now that we are getting the apartment I will be able to do it again.

I’m sure it seems so old-fashioned and it is. But in my opinion, it is one thing the Older Generations got right. And it works wonders in this lifestyle too.

Say your Owner has a large interest in the local community of Kinky persons. He has a few friends that are Dominates and the responsibility of making a lasting impression with the cooking and entertaining lands squarely on your shoulders. Its crunch time and you have to plan a meal for Them and say their slaves. You can go to your Butler’s Book or Little Helper as I call it and have everything there. If Sir A doesn’t like garlic and Sir B likes Mexican food but is allergic to tomatoes, you have it all right in front of you and can make a meal that satisfies everybody. Just make sure you don’t forget your Master/Mistress’s interests in the jumble. After all they are the ones that are most important to you.

And it makes your Master/Mistress look good in the eyes of His/Her peers. Which is one of the main motivations in our lifestyle as a slave/submissive is it not? And even we need help remembering all the information. It’s why the Meal planner, Shopping list and now the Butler’s Book are one of the best tools to use!